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Among many other things that hinder female idols from getting the respect and recognition they deserve, nothing is scarier and easier to ruin someone’s career and reputation forever than a string of scandals.

What are you seeing? Above are real netizen comments for female idols whose careers are “tainted” because they decided to date, take a photo with a male celebrity, and showed their limit of what they can take. Some of these idol’s images are ruined solely on malicious and at times, baseless rumors like plastic surgery, pregnancy and bullying. These comments range from disbandment threats, sexual harrassment, and overall, just straight up misogyny.

Why should we care? The damaging effects of these comments can greatly affect an idol’s perception of themselves in a negative and unhealthy way. This can affect their performances and variety show appearances, their openness to share things to their fans, etc. They may come to realize that there’s no use of being an idol and quit, or even worse, quit living altogether.

What can we do? Supporting female idols is important. This means giving moral support to them not only during scandals, but during promotions and hiatus, giving financial support by buying their albums, and to not spread malicious rumors around, even if it’s someone we don’t necessarily fancy. Why?

Because female idols are also ladies, just like most of us are. What they feel, we probably feel on a daily basis. Rather than sending hate to them, we should come to understand, sympathize and be there for them because no one else will.

the-wolfbats:

Can we have another “Type the following words into your tags box, then post the first automatic tag that comes up.” post with the words

  • their
  • okay
  • but
  • though
  • say
  • no
  • and
  • left
  • around
  • me
  • their: I love their covers so much
  • okay: i’m not okay with this
  • but: but i still love you
  • though: did you mean: my everyday thoughts
  • say: I DIDN’T SAY ANYTHING
  • no: NO BUT SRSLY
  • and: and being too sexy for the world
  • left: left
  • around: around
  • me: me right now

BASIC:

Name: marie
Nickname(s): -
Age: 15

LIKES / DISLIKES:

Favourite Colour(s): anything pastel
Least Favourite Colour: bright green
Favourite Food: ramen
Least Favourite Food: anything really greasy
Favourite Band/Artist: f(x)/block b/vixx/guns n’ roses
Least Favourite Band/Artist: metallica
Favourite Type of Movie: action/animation
Least Favourite Type of Movie: horror/romance
One thing you can’t get enough of: sweets
One thing you hate more than anything: eyk

LOVE LIFE:

Are you single? yes
Do you have a crush on anyone right now? nah
Do you flirt a lot? not really
Do you believe in love at first sight? nah
Do you fall in love fast? i do
Do you ever make the first move? it’s very rarely
Do you want to get married? nah

ARE YOU…

A daydreamer? yeah
Talkative? only online
Energetic? only when i’m fangirling
Happy? currently, yes
Trustworthy? yes
Confident? no
Friendly? i’m friendly as long as i get treated well
Sarcastic? yeah
Dependable? yeah but sometimes i just don’t want to do the shit i have to do
Adaptable? well
Emotionally strong? i suppose so
Religious? no.
Indecisive? yes
Outgoing? no
Nosy? no
Lazy? yes
Artistic? no
Thoughtful? yes
Considerate? i’m trying my best
Romantic? haha
Obsessive? a bit
Sincere? err
Tolerant? yes but sometimes i just can’t